To Become

Take a moment and answer the fol­low­ing ques­tion: “What do you want to become?”

What did you answer?

Do you want to become smarter? Health­ier? Hap­pier? More finan­cially sta­ble? A bet­ter par­ent? A faster cyclist? A marathon run­ner? A more loyal friend? A more valu­able employee? What­ever your answer, this is an impor­tant ques­tion to peri­od­i­cally ask of your­self, because the answers serve as the guide for all that you do. Time on this planet is lim­ited, and guess what — you don’t even get to know just how lim­ited it might be. So, it is vital to think long and hard about what you want to become and then exam­ine your actions to fig­ure out what to do about it.

As human beings we have an incred­i­ble power to become some­thing more than we are at present. We have the cre­ative capac­ity to envi­sion a real­ity dif­fer­ent from the present state of things. Like no other crea­tures, peo­ple have the abil­ity to dream.  What often sep­a­rates the dream from real­ity is sim­ple choices. These choices deter­mine our actions. To con­sciously evolve into some­thing new requires sac­ri­fic­ing some of what we are in order to become some­thing new.

You could leave life up to the uni­verse — going where the world will take you, liv­ing com­pletely with­out regard for the future.  You could inten­tion­ally do noth­ing and then blame the uni­verse, or God, or an infi­nite num­ber of other things for your fail­ure to become. Or you can define a vision of what you hope to become and choose actions that move you in the right direc­tion. Step by step, day by day, and choice by choice you have the power to evolve into some­thing new.

If you want to be a doc­tor, you have work to become one. If you want to be a run­ner, you have to get your ass off the couch and run to become one. If you want to be suc­cess­ful in any endeavor in life, you have to go through a process of becom­ing. That process is tough. It requires a will­ing­ness to dream and a relent­less drive to achieve.

Again, answer the ques­tion “What do you want to become?” Fol­low that by look­ing at your recent activ­ity, your daily actions, and your upcom­ing plans. Are the things you are doing help­ing make your dreams become your life?

No one else can dic­tate the path you choose. Decide what it is you want to become and act to make it happen.

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